Friday, April 30, 2010

Toasts



Since I didn't cover toasting in the last blog which was titled toasting, I thought I should offer some wonderful toasts for a variety of occasions in this blog.

First, there is some toasting etiquette to learn before toasting commences.
1. Toasts are kind words spoken to the guest(s) of honor. To begin, hold your glass in your hand. Once the toast is over, raise your glass signaling that your toast has ended. At this point, all of the guests should sip to the guest(s) of honor.

2. If you are the guest(s) of honor,you do NOT sip after a toast is made to you. This is considered bad etiquette. You may raise your glass and graciously nod your head with appreciation. Drinking after a toast is made in your honor suggests that you are toasting to yourself; a bit narcissistic.

3. If your affair is a small and intimate gathering, then there is no need to stand while delivering your toast. If the affair is larger than those seated at a dinner table, then it is imperative to stand so all may hear the toast.

4. Toasts are not speeches. They are a few short clever lines encapsulating large sentiments.
Now for the Toasts!

New Year's Toasts
In the New Year, may your right hand always be stretched out in friendship, but never in want. ~ Traditional Irish toast

Stir the eggnog, lift the toddy, Happy New Year, everybody. ~ Phyllis McGinley

Here's to us all, God bless us every one! ~ from Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol

Here's a toast to the future, A toast to the past, And a toast to our friends, far and near. May the future be pleasant; The past a bright dream; May our friends remain faithful and dear. ~ Anonymous

Cheers to you, Cheers to me, Have a Happy New Year’s Eve!

New Year’s Quotes

For last year's words belong to last year's language And next year's words await another voice. And to make an end is to make a beginning. ~ T.S. Eliot

New Year's Day is every man's birthday. ~ Charles Lamb

Each age has deemed the new-born year The fittest time for festal cheer. ~ Sir Walter Scott

Youth is when you're allowed to stay up late on New Year's Eve. Middle age is when you're forced to. ~ Bill Vaughn

Ring out the old, ring in the new, Ring, happy bells, across the snow: The year is going, let him go; Ring out the false, ring in the true. ~ Lord Alfred Tennyson

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing. ~ Abraham Lincoln

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

A New Years toast to love and laughter
and happily ever after

A health to you, a wealth to you,
And the best that life can give to you.

Dance as if no one were watching, sing as if no one were listening
and live every day as if it were your last.

Valentine's Day Toasts
Victor Hugo
Life is a flower of which love is the honey.

Oliver Wendell Holmes
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.

Voltaire
Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination.

Fred Jacob
True love is like a fine wine, the older the better.

Emerson
Love is a perfume you cannot pour onto others without getting a few drops on yourself.

Anonymous
Love means nothing in tennis, but it's everything in life.

Francois de la Rochefoucauld
True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.

Ovid
Love is a driver, bitter and fierce if you fight and resist him,
Easy-going enough once you acknowledge his power.

Melanie Clark
You can't put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories.

Diane Ackerman
Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.

F. Sagan
I have loved to the point of madness;
That which is called madness,
That which to me,
Is the only sensible way to love.

William Shakespeare
Did my heart love till now?
Forswear it sight,
For I ne'er saw true beauty till this night.

William Shakespeare
This senior-junior, giant-dwarf, Dan Cupid;
Regent of love-rhymes, lord of folded arms,
The anointed sovereign of sighs and groans,
Liege of all loiterers and malcontents.

Anonymous
What would it be like to swing on a star, or walk on a cloud? Would it be anything like what I feel whenever you are near?

William Shakespeare
Tomorrow is Saint Valentine's day,
All in the morning bedtime,
And I a maid at your window,
To be your Valentine.

Josh Billings
Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can't help but smile on it.

Patch Adams
I love you without knowing how, why, or even from where...

Zelda Fitzgerald
I don't want to live; I want to love first, and live incidentally.

St. Patrick's Day Toasts
May your pockets be heavy and your heart be light, may good luck pursue you each morning and night.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may we friends gathered below never fall out.

A trout in the pot is better than a salmon in the sea.

As you slide down the banister of life, may the splinters never point in the wrong direction.

A friend's eye is a good mirror.

May you live as long as you want, and never want as long as you live.

He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses more; He who loses faith, loses all.

May the Lord keep you in His hand and never close His fist too tight.

May your neighbors respect you, trouble neglect you, the angels protect you, and heaven accept you.

May the sound of happy music, and the lilt of Irish laughter, fill your heart with gladness, that stays forever after.

May the hinges of our friendship never grow rusty. And our ale never turn musty.

St. Patrick was a gentleman
Who through strategy and stealth
Drove all the snakes from Ireland.
Here’s toasting to his health.
But not too many toastings
Lest you lose yourself and then
Forget the good St. Patrick
And see all those snakes again.

There are many good reasons for drinking,
One has just entered my head.
If a man doesn't drink when he's living,
How in the hell can he drink when he's dead?

Here's to you and yours
And to mine and ours.
And if mine and ours
Ever come across to you and yours,
I hope you and yours will do
As much for mine and ours
As mine and ours have done
For you and yours!

Birthday Toasts
Happy Birthday
Many Happy Returns
Although another year is past
He seems no older than the last.

May this next year bring you the very best of happiness health and fortune.

To the most cleverly guarded secret in this country: your age.





Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Conversation/Toasts/Interaction!


Every gathering is comprised of an eclectic grouping of individuals. We learn varying perspectives, diction, better ways to communicate, become inspired, and thus gain a more enriching fulfilling life.

How to communicate?
Ask open ended questions. This allows a person to answer with more than a yes or no. Open ended questions encourage descriptive responses of which you are able to make inferences and further connect. But don't jump to conclusions, rather further engage with the person.

Listen with a purpose. By actively listening to someone, you gain perspective, direction, develop an understanding of who this person is while being able to assess common denominators. Active listening enables people to solve problems, show support, and share interests.

Offer feedback. Offering feedback by recapturing the main idea of the conversation. When doing so, this qualifies that you have accurately understood the conversation shared.

We are all social creatures. We are always in the need of friends. To begin, start with small talk. Ask potential friends about themselves and their interests. But BEWARE!!! there are certainly specific topics of conversation to reel away from while attending a party...

These are:
1. Politics
Politics is a funky subject of which many people regard with great passion. There is a time and place for politics i.e., intimate gatherings and one on one conversation outside of a party environment. Typically during a cocktail party, we are all consuming festive spirits...but this doesn't mean that others find your liquored rants to be persuasive. If someone asks your opinion, say that you would love to offer an opinion encouraging the explanation may be better shared at another time.

2.Religion
Religion too is harboured with great passion regardless of your view. We spend a lifetime contemplating the what ifs of the whole religious perspectives. Veer away from religious denominational conversation. However, theological conversation does not demand an affiliation with a specific denomination...it is simply a conceptual discussion. If you find someone cerebral enough to tango in this realm, then, depending on environment, seating, etc...have fun.

3.Earnings
How much someone makes annually. It is NEVER okay to ask what one earns personally. If a topic of various positions and monetary salaries correlating to those positions erupts, then this is fair game. But to directly ask one what they make is truly a faux pas and never forgotten by the one receiving the question. Also, in this category, it is key not to detail how much you spent on an object nor ask what someone paid for an item. If you would like to inquire about a wine or cheese being served, ask where the host/hostess purchased them, but don't ask "how much?!".

4.Gifted and Talented Children that YOU Birthed
Please! A complete yawn at a party. We all believe our children to be special...in fact, each child DOES encompass immense potential. But unless your child is debuting with the New York Philharmonic or designing and manufacturing his/her own personal computers...please don't share! Talking about kids is a given. Share experiences of which we can all relate to...because even Genius George soiled himself while at a restaurant while perfect you didn't have a clean set of clothes.

5.Talking about other people
Just Don't! Certainly not at a party. I am referring to the infamous gossip fest that sometimes develops at social gatherings. No No No No No! If you have a fabulous compliment to share about someone, then by all means, share your compliment and theory as to why it was earned, otherwise, shut it! Bad vibes and horribly impolite!

6.Death and Illness
If your ambition is to generate a pool of sobs and sadness, then plow forward. I cannot think of anything more uplifting than discussing pancreatic cancer, death, and fear of contracting such an illness. We all know of someone who has been afflicted with a disease, suffering or lost the battle, etc...a party isn't the place to expound on this topic.

7.Narcissism
Like I said earlier, every child is special and so is each adult. Everyone has something to offer. However, it is such a bore to listen or be forced to listen to someone drone on and on about how he/she saved the company, how much he/she works out, the idiosyncratic details of the macrobiotic diet they have designed and encourage all other over weight sloths to engage in daily, the need to talk about their fetishes and OCD....please...don't! You may think this is attracting others to you, but the opposite goal is being attained.

8.Name Dropping
Trying to outdo the person who was kind enough to engage with you is obnoxious! Sharing experiences and correlating these experiences with specific people can be interesting. There is a limit. One story following one fantastic story of your life as a drama queen/king makes those who are in the "audience" questioning why the brilliant you is here and not on the red carpet hobnobbing with all of the other important folk.

9.Sex
Unless you are attending a "sex" party or you are at a sex toys convention, this topic is off limits. Period! Although sex is on every one's minds, it isn't something that need be expounded at a social event. I do not want to hear about your favorite sex toy purchase, your latest position, nor do I wish to inventory how many lovers you have acquired over the years. Eewwwww Nasty!

10.(Just because I feel I need 10 topics)...try not to be a one topic conversationalist. People will see you coming and disperse. For example: If all you have in your conversational arsenal is the topic of your kids...try to amp it up a bit and elaborate on generations, specific age groups and topics which are pertinent to those age groups...i.e, teenagers....oversleeping, hormonal imbalances, apathy, creativity, identity, etc..

Parties are meant to be enjoyed. Try to put your best foot forward and join with a positive attitude. If you are lucky, you will meet interesting people, learn something new, and make a lasting memory for yourself and another.

Cheers!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Cinco de Mayo!!!!!!


The up and coming holiday of which many will host a party is Cinco de Mayo! I would love to elaborate on its rich history and offer suggestions to throwing a fabulous and memorable event!!!

The history of Cinco de Mayo originated when on May 5th 1862, 2000 poorly trained Mexican peasants fought and won the Battle at Puebla against an army of 6000 professionally trained French soldiers. The Battle of Puebla was an important victory for the Mexican people over the occupying French Army. This holiday is truly a symbolic holiday celebrating People over Opression!

Now you know why you are celebrating...so, let us begin the preparations!

Decide on your budget. Once this is established, this dictates the amount of guests, food, decor, and drinks.

This particular Cinco de Mayo Fiesta will serve 30-40 people. Say an approximate of 25 adults and 5 to 10 children.

To begin, you will need invitations. The invitations ALWAYS set the mood for the party.
There are a plethora of online invitations sites i.e., evite, sendomatic, purpletrail, pingg, socializr, and desievite......peruse each one and select the company that best services your needs and reflects your personality.

Of course, if internet isn't the way to go for you, you can always purchase the invitations and mail, have them custom made, or if you have the time and creativity...then make them yourself and distribute via hand or mail.

Decorations is the next item on the list. In order to embody the theme of the party, it is essential to have appropriate decorations and music.

There are many types of decorations that lend itself to a Cinco de Mayo themed party. Chili pepper wreaths, sombreros, the Mexican flag, Red, White, and Green table cloths...Sarape table cloths, Pinks, blues, greens, oranges, yellows....an explosion of color....Perhaps have all the table cloths in one vibrant color, i.e., yellow and then add a beautiful bouquet of fresh cut flowers for each centerpiece.

The decoration budget can become cumbersome if not careful. Plan carefully.

In an event of which you have 30-40 people in attendance, you will need to rent seating and tables from your local Party Rental Company. Each of these establishments will be able to provide you with all of the rental needs imaginable. They may have some extra items specific to your party's theme for additional rental costs. Party Rental companies offer delivery for a fee or the option for you to pick up and return.

Music, in this instance, quite easy....happy and uplifting Mexican music...mariachi bands, maracas, etc...fiesta music.

Dancing...have someone teach flamenco! When dancers enter wearing their vibrantly colored flamenco dresses, people cannot help but be awed by their sight and excited by their dance!

Now for this particular party, we don't have to worry too much for the beverages. Wine lovers will partake in Sangria, Beer lovers will sip on ice cold beer, and Tequila lovers will be offered a variety of tequila beverages from Margaritas, Paloma, and a robust Mexican Spitfire (family invented).



Mojo Margarita
Servings: 1

Ingredients: 1 1/2 ounces Commemorativo Tequila
1/2 ounce Grand Marnier
sweet sour mix
splash of orange juice
splash of cranberry juice
Instructions: Fill a very tall glass with ice, pour in alcohol, sweet and sour mix and juices. Shake and pour into a salt rimmed glass (optional).

Classic Margarita

Ingredients:
•1 1/2 oz tequila
•1/2 oz triple sec
•dash of lemon or lime juice
•3 oz sour mix
•lime wedge for garnish
•salt or sugar to rim the glass (optional)
Preparation:
1.Pour the ingredients into a cocktail shaker with ice cubes.
2.Shake well.
3.If desired, salt the rim of a chilled margarita glass.
4.Pour contents, with ice, into the glass.
5.Garnish with the lime wedge.

The Paloma
For a refreshing, thirst quenching tequila cocktail, the Paloma is a Mexico favorite.
definitely at the top of the list and it's a favorite in Mexico. It's a light, fruity drink with a fizz and one of the smoothest tequila drinks out there. Almost any blanco tequila works well in combination with the grapefruit and you may also see this cocktail with grapefruit juice and a splash of soda instead of a grapefruit soda like Squirt.
Ingredients:
•2 oz blanco or reposado tequila
•6 oz fresh grapefruit soda
•1/2 oz lime juice
•salt for rimming (optional)
Preparation:
1.Rim a collins glass with salt.
2.Fill the glass with ice and add the tequila and lime juice.
3.Top it off with grapefruit soda.

The Mexican Spitfire named after the movie based on an ocean location.
The Mexican Spitfire
Ingredients:
•1 1/2 oz tequila
•5 oz CLAMATO
•dash of lemon or lime juice
•Splash of Worcester sauce
•Hot sauce
•Pickled okra
•lime wedge for garnish
•Sea salt to rim the glass (optional)


Preparation:
1.Pour the ingredients into a cocktail shaker with ice cubes.
2.Shake well.
3.If desired, salt the rim of a chilled glass.
4.Pour contents, with ice, into the glass.
5.Garnish with the lime wedge and pickled okra.

Classic Sangria
The success of any mixture will depend on the quality of these ingredients: always to use good red wine and the freshest fruit available!!!

Sangría must always be served ice-cold.

•Makes 4 glasses

•Difficulty: Very easy

•Preparation time: 10 minutes

Ingredients
•3 1/4 cups ( 26 fl. oz) dry red wine
•1 tablespoon sugar
•Juice of 1 large orange
•Juice of 1 large lemon
•1 large orange, sliced thin crosswise
•1 large lemon, sliced thin crosswise
•2 medium peaches, peeled, pitted and cut into chunks
•1 cup (8 fl. oz) club soda
Preparation
Combine all the ingredients except for the club soda in a large punch bowl or serving pitcher, mixing well. Refrigerate overnight. Immediately before serving, mix in the club soda for added fizz. Ladle into cups with ice cubes. Garnish with sliced oranges. MMMMmmm! Refreshing and delightful!


For the Beer, venture to your local liquor store and purchase quantities of Mexican beer, Dos Equis, Corona, Modelo, etc....Have them iced and near bowls of freshly cut limes!

Always have quantities of water for all to consume.

So...here is a bit of a formula for purchasing liquor.
When throwing a cocktail party, venture to assume each person will consume two drinks for the duration of a two hour shindig. If the party is an all out affair, then estimate four beverages per person.

Beer: 5 six packs will serve 10 people on average
Wine: 5 servings per bottle
Hard Alcohol:
750 ml bottle = 16 cocktails
1 liter = 22 cocktails
1.5 liter = 39 cocktails

Hors d'oeuvres.....Serve Tapas

Despite Tapas originated in Spain, they lend themselves to an exceptional compliment for this occasion.
Tapas is the name of a wide variety of appetizers, or snacks that may be served cold or hot. Tapas has evolved into an entire, and sometimes sophisticated cuisine. It is common for patrons to frequent Tapas Restaurants ordering a variety of "small meals" which combined make a very full and delicious meal.

Fried squid
Fresh or frozen squid can be purchased in most grocery stores, in the frozen food section, a dozen to a box. If your market does not carry it, ask at the fish counter or the butcher to order it for you.

Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 20 minutes
Ingredients:
•2 lbs cleaned squid
•1/4 + lb flour
•24 – 32 oz Spanish olive oil for frying
•salt to taste
•1 lemon
Preparation:
Makes 8 servings as an appetizer.

Wherever you buy the squid, they need to be cleaned before cooking. The spines, ink sacks and heads should be discarded. If you are cleaning the squid yourself, don’t throw away the tentacles because those are good to eat. Cleaned, frozen squid bodies may also be available and are good to make large calamar rings.

Once the squid is cleaned, dry them thoroughly. Cut the squid bodies into rings.

Pour a half-inch of olive oil into a large open frying pan and put on high heat for frying, but be careful that the oil does not smoke.

Place a couple handfuls of flour and a bit of salt into a large plastic bag. Place a few pieces into the bag and shake to cover with flour. Remove the rings one at a time with your hands and carefully place in the hot oil. Continue to cover pieces in flour and add to the pan. Leave enough room in the pan to turn over pieces if necessary. Fry until the rings turn golden. When done, remove from pan and allow to drain on a paper towel. Serve hot with lemon.

Jamón, Queso y Chorizo con Pan - Ham, Cheese and Chorizo with Bread

This is a simple, but delicious appetizer or tapa that everyone enjoys. It involves very little cooking and you can put it together at the last minute. Although you could simply put out a basket of bread and a platter of Manchego cheese, jamón Serrano and Spanish chorizo, you would probably see it disappear almost instantly. Serving these simple tapa already prepared on individual baguette slices makes it last longer!

Prep Time: 15 minutes
Cook Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 25 minutesIngredients:
•2 French-style baguettes
•1/2 lb Manchego cheese
•1/4 lb Serrano ham
•1 lb Spanish chorizo sausage
Preparation:
Two Special Ingredient Notes
1.Spanish Chorizo: This sausage is very different than Mexican chorizo. Spanish chorizo is a firm, dry sausage where most Mexican chorizo is fresh and soft, not cured sausage. It also has different spices than Spanish Chorizo, so it is not a good substitute for this recipe. If you need a substitute, try using Portuguese Linguica sausage, which is very similar to Spanish Chorizo.
2.Serrano Ham: Depending on where you live, Serrano Ham may be a bit difficult to purchase locally. If after a few calls to speciality supermarkets and/or ethnic grocery stores in your area does not turn up anything, try ordering over the internet.
You’ll need a large platter or two for serving.

Slice All Ingredients
•Slice the crusty baguette, making the slices about a 1/3-inch thick.

•Slice the Manchego cheese, approximately 1/8 – 1/4-inch thick. Slicing the cheese thinly may prove tricky because it is dry and crumbly. Don´t worry, you´ll only need small pieces to place one on each piece of bread.

•If you have a whole piece of jamón, you’ll want to slice it in paper-thin slices. If you purchased the jamón already sliced, cut the slices into pieces small enough to fit on the top of the baguette slices.

•Slice the Spanish chorizo into pieces about 1/4-inch thick, ready for frying, optional. Some people prefer to simply slice the chorizo and serve, while others enjoy it more lightly fried.

Place a large open frying pan, with a heavy bottom on stove with a teaspoon of olive oil and move to cover the bottom with oil. Turn burner on medium heat. Place the chorizo into the pan and fry pieces for 5-10 minutes, turning as necessary. Remove as soon as the chorizo is cooked.

Place the baguette slices on the platter. Place one piece of cheese and a piece of ham on each one. On others, place a piece of chorizo.

Lime-Drizzled Shrimp
Serves 6
•4 limes
•12 raw jumbo shrimp, in their shells
•3 Tbsp Spanish olive oil
•2 Garlic cloves, finely chopped
•Splash of fino sherry
•Salt and pepper
•4 Tbsp Chopped fresh flatleaf parsley

•Grate the rind and squeeze the juice from 2 of the limes. Cut the remaining 2 limes into wedges and set them aside for later.

•To prepare the shrimp, remove the head and legs, leaving the shells and tails intact. Using a sharp knife, make a shallow slit along the underside of each shrimp, then pull out the dark vein and discard. Rinse the shrimp under cold water and dry well on paper towels.

•Heat the olive oil in a large, heavy-bottom skillet, then add the garlic and cook for 30 seconds. Add the shrimp and cook for 5 minutes, stirring from time to time, or until they turn pink and start to curl. Mix in the lime rind, juice, and a splash of sherry to moiste, then stir well together.

•Transfer the cooked shrimp to a serving dish, season to taste with salt and pepper, and sprinkle with the parsley.

•Serve hot accompanied by the reserved lime wedges for additional juicing!

Zucchini Fritters with a Dipping Sauce
Ingredients
1 lb baby zucchini
3 Tbsp all-purpose flour
1 tsp paprika
1 large egg
2 Tbsp milk
Corn oil for frying
Coarse sea salt
Aioli or Pine Nut dipping sauce (recipes to follow)

Aioli Sauce
•1 large egg yolk, room temperature
•1 Tbsp White wine vinegar or lemon juice
•2 Large garlic cloves, peeled
•Salt and Pepper
•5 Tbsp Spanish extra virgin olive oil
•5 Tbsp corn oil

Pine Nut Sauce
•Generous ½ cup pine nuts
•1 Garlic clove, peeled
•3 Tbsp Spanish extra virgin olive oil
•1 Tbsp lemon juice
•3 Tbsp water
•1 Tbsp chopped fresh flat leaf parsley
•Salt and Pepper

Preparation:
•If you have selected the Pine Nut sauce, make this sauce first. Put the pine nuts and garlic into a food processor and blend to form a puree. With the motor still running, gradually add the olive oil, lemon juice, and water to form a smooth sauce. Stir in the parsley and season to taste with the salt and pepper. Turn into a serving bowl.

•Aioli Sauce: put the egg yolk, vinegar, garlic, and salt and pepper to taste in the bowl of a food processor fitted with the metal blade and blend well together. With the motor still running, very slowly add the olive oil, then the corn oil, drop by drop at first, then, when it starts to thicken, in a slow, steady stream until the sauce is thick and smooth. Alternatively, mix in a bowl with a whisk.

Zucchini:
•Cut them on the diagonal into thin slices about ¼ inch. Put the flour and paprika in a plastic bag and mix together. Beat the egg and milk together in a large bowl.

•Add the zucchini slices to the flour mixture and toss well together until coated. Shake off the excess flour. Pour enough corn oil into a large, heavy-bottom skillet for a depth of about ½ inch, and heat. Dip the zucchini slices, one at a time, into the egg mixture, then slip them into the hot oil. Cook the zucchini slices, in batches of a single layer so that they do not overcrowd the skillet, for 2 minutes, or until crisp and golden brown.

•Using a slotted spoon, remove the zucchini fritters from the skillet and drain on paper towels. Continue until all the zucchini slices have been cooked.
•Serve the zucchini fritters piping hot, lightly sprinkled with sea salt. Accompany with a bowl of your chosen dipping sauce.

For Tapas, anticipate an hour or an hour and a half...then Serve Dinner!!

Dinner: Fajitas

Marinade
1/2 c. oil
1/3 c. lime juice
2 pkg. Hidden Valley Ranch dressing mix
1 tsp. cumin
1/2 tsp. black pepper

Combine above ingredients and pour over 2 pounds of steak or chicken breast. Refrigerate overnight. Grill and cut diagonally; roll in flour tortilla.
Serve grilled red and green peppers, onions, and jalapenos.


Guacamole
Serves 2-4
Ingredients
2 ripe avocados
1/2 red onion, minced (about 1/2 cup)
1-2 serrano chiles, stems and seeds removed, minced
2 tablespoons cilantro leaves, finely chopped
1 tablespoon of fresh lime or lemon juice
1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
A dash of freshly grated black pepper
1/2 ripe tomato, seeds and pulp removed, chopped
Garnish with red radishes or jicama. Serve with tortilla chips.

Method
1 Cut avocados in half. Remove seed. Scoop out avacado from the peel, put in a mixing bowl. (See How to Cut and Peel an Avocado.)

2 Using a fork, mash the avocado. Add the chopped onion, cilantro, lime or lemon, salt and pepper and mash some more. Chili peppers vary individually in their hotness. So, start with a half of one chili pepper and add to the guacamole to your desired degree of hotness. Be careful handling the peppers; wash your hands thoroughly after handling and do not touch your eyes or the area near your eyes with your hands for several hours.

Keep the tomatoes separate until ready to serve.

Remember that much of this is done to taste because of the variability in the fresh ingredients. Start with this recipe and adjust to your taste.

3 Cover with plastic wrap directly on the surface of the guacamole to prevent oxidation from the air reaching it. Refrigerate until ready.

4 Just before serving, add the chopped tomato to the guacamole and mix.

Salsa
Ingredients:
•3 tablespoons finely chopped onion
•2 small cloves garlic, minced
•3 large ripe tomatoes, peeled and seeds removed, chopped
•2 hot chile peppers, Serrano or Jalapeno, finely chopped
•2 to 3 tablespoons minced cilantro
•1 1/2 to 2 tablespoons lime juice
•salt and pepper
Preparation:
Put chopped onion and garlic in a strainer; pour 2 cups boiling water over them then let drain throughly. Discard water. Cool.
Combine onions and garlic with chopped tomatoes, peppers, cilantro, lime juice, salt, and pepper. Refrigerate for 2 to 4 hours to blend flavors.
Makes about 2 cups of salsa.

Have a huge bowl of torilla chips available for everyone to grab and dip into the guacamole and salsa.

Have plenty of ice, lively music, plenty of room and seating, and a fabulous attitude. Your party will be a sensation and a buzz! Make a memory and don't hesitate to ask questions if you have any!
Feliz Cinco de Mayo!!!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Entertaining with Class

With today's economy sagging and the urge to gather not...we are all in a conundrum. We desire the company of others to forget, commiserate, or to idealize the moment of which we are in or the moments we wish to occur. Planning a gathering is usually costly and time consuming. Having this concept deeply embedded into our beings, we as a populace tend to edit the amount of gatherings rather than feed our need to gather often.

We are hoping to assist you with all of your party planning needs. This blog is intended to be your Bible for Entertaining with class and efficiency. Everyone loves to gather, laugh, and enjoy refreshments. Perhaps we would choose to offer more forums for these precious moments if we knew how to set an ambiance which is affordable and not so overwhelming to execute. This is where we come in. In the following months and the many anticipated blogs to follow, our intent is to show you how to put together gatherings of many sorts...be it by theme, a party focused on wine, a party focused on appetizers, but always a party focused on the people who will comprise the mood and memories.

As we know, there are many types of parties to be had. We all throw them and we all attend them. Some require a dress code of evening wear while others simply suggest to attend after a quick shower and a positive attitude. Regardless of your affair's set, we shall provide you with the tools to execute any event at any time and most importantly, at an affordable price.

To begin, each host/hostess shall take inventory of their serving settings. For hors d'oeuvres, develop a collection of plates which are easy to clean, easy to display, and compliment most settings. This collection could be comprised of pewter, mexican pewter, or a plethora of ceramics. It is important to be creative. Begin with your first gathering making it simple and designed around a creative theme.

Begin with the season that you are currently in...i.e., Spring. Spring lends itself to Easter and Passover gatherings. In this instance, you are striving to attend to the needs of many ages. An Easter or Passover meal will always have the main entree which will require a large platter. Side dishes will be served complimenting the large platter. For Spring, we always embody soft and warm colors. Glassware can be clear accentuating the colorful palette of food displayed. Table pieces lend themselves to anything alive, green, and budding...soft pinks, yellows, blues, etc.

When we think Spring, we think of rebirth, all that was planted reviving itself. Perhaps, a new beginning. With this in mind, the creativity can splurge into many directions.

In the future blogs, we shall demonstrate complete examples of meals, dishes for meals to be served upon, flatware, glassware, linens, music, invitations and a plethora of appetizers to chose from.

We encourage you to check in and extract from the text or begin a dialogue of which we can specifically detail your event.

Let us celebrate life and share life with others...tastefully!